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Because of social prejudice, trauma, or personal events, many women develop a fear or dislike of driving. This article provides useful advice on how to overcome panic driving and debunks the erroneous myth that men are better drivers.

Women driving cars

Prejudices between the sexes are not only to be found in the world of work – but road traffic can also be based on social prejudices against women. These mostly result from the false belief that women are worse drivers than men, as well as from the historical association of the automotive scene with the male gender.

But there are female drivers who have made history. And recently the macho tendency in the automotive world is becoming less and less. However, the social burden is so strong that many women view driving with fear and reservations. That’s why we’re going to offer some advice to give encouragement to those who still feel scared when starting the engine.

6 pieces of advice to get braver behind the wheel

If you could, why shouldn’t you? Here are some recommendations to finally get rid of your fear of driving. Also, note useful tips for saving when buying a car.

1) Practice in free and safe places

In the beginning, it could be helpful if you take a driver you trust in the passenger seat so that he or she can help you find your way and give you security. The further away from the city, you lay your exercise route, the safer you will feel. Gradually you will then be able to face heavier traffic.

2) Take driving lessons

In order to learn to drive or to improve your driving skills, both the experience of the trained driving instructors and their theoretical support is essential. Also, it is mandatory to pass the driving test. You can also find out more about the best way to prepare for the exam on DEKRA.

3) Make friends with GPS

If you know the route and its obstacles from the start, you will be more relaxed. Today, thanks to satellite navigation, it is possible to see the direction of travel, and possible shortcuts, quickly recalculate the route if there is a problem or if you miss the exit, etc.

4) Learn basic mechanics and customize your car by yourself

With every problem that arises, you will feel more confident if you have previously informed yourself about the characteristics of each car part if you know the spare parts, and have bought the tires yourself on the Internet beforehand. At www.reifenleader.de there is an extensive catalog of tires including their technical details. You can also consult your car model’s tire manual and your car’s equipment there. In addition, this knowledge can also be an effective help when selling your car.

5) If you need professional help, don’t hesitate to ask for it

When your fear becomes irrational and limits you in the actions of your everyday life, we speak of a phobia. Driving a car has this and it’s called amaxophobia. This psychological state can be due to many reasons, such as remembering an accident. To overcome them, you need professional help. Sometimes, in a few hours of therapy, you can overcome something that many hours of driving couldn’t achieve. Also, note how to avoid annoying winter blues and reduce stress and anxiety.

6) Gradually increase the distance

Without any pressure, you will be able to conquer new streets and districts. Start with those in your neighborhood and gradually expand your radius.

Women are excellent drivers

Both the number of complaints and penalties, as well as the latest studies from institutions such as the US Department of Transportation, INEGI in Mexico, the Polytechnic Institute of Madrid, and the Center for Experimentation and Traffic Safety (Cesvi) in Argentina, lead us to the same conclusion: Not only can women drive as well or even better than men, they are even more careful.

There are other indicators that give indications of this as well. In the UK, for example, car insurance is cheaper for women. And we already know that insurance companies never lose. It is also important to understand that the circumstances in which women live in different countries around the world are very different. The lifestyle that a German woman leads, for example, determines her social behavior to a greater or lesser extent.

Even though some studies show that men have developed some motor skills by up to 20%, when driving a car it is not just these that are important, but a combination of factors such as concentration and obeying the traffic rules. Factors that are more pronounced in women. Stereotypes and gender differences aside, it’s about overcoming irrational fears, learning and practicing, knowing our own limits, and trusting our abilities.

Perceived fear puts the body in a state of stress. The body then reacts with increased blood pressure, accelerated breathing rate, and feelings of anxiety. Therefore, use tips to overcome anxiety disorders and fear. With targeted exercises and changes in everyday life, symptoms of anxiety can be alleviated.

Man’s Fear

Whether it’s nagging fear of exams, challenges at work, or social conflicts: there are plenty of fear triggers. The basic feeling of fear is based on the insecurity of the emotional life. Accordingly, it is always felt when situations are perceived as threatening. What happens in the body is enormous and can be traced back to evolution.

But if the man could not feel fear, he would certainly not have survived to this day. Because fear is survival or protective mechanism. As a result, it activates critical bodily functions and thus the fight-or-flight response (fight-or-flight), a term coined by the American physiologist Cannon. Among other things, muscles are tensed and the senses sharpened in order to be able to react appropriately to danger.

Tips to overcome fear

The problem is that while most stressful situations in modern life are not about survival, the physical reactions are equally intense. At least that applies to everyone who does not actively deal with anxiety symptoms and helps their organism to help itself. If you constantly suffer from anxiety and are stressed and rushed, you should first take a critical look at your personal lifestyle. Then you can possibly alleviate existing anxiety symptoms by changing your habits and diet in a positive way.

1) Sleep and relaxation

The human body is not a machine. This is clear to everyone, but many treat their organism as if it were one. In order to remain efficient, concentrated, and healthy, you need regular breaks and enough healthy sleep. When you lack rest periods, the immune and nervous systems become significantly weakened. How many hours of night rest is beneficial to health depends on several factors such as age, time of year, and gender. Bayerischer Rundfunk has compiled further information on the sleep rhythm online.

2) Exercise in the fresh air

Lack of oxygen and light has a negative effect on health. The same applies to too little exercise. Sport in everyday life and outdoors provides you with fresh air and sunlight (vitamin D). It also helps to improve stress resistance, which in turn counteracts strong anxiety triggers. Exercise also desensitizes stress receptors, improves the respiratory system, and promotes digestion. During physical activity, the stress hormone release is reduced, while the release of the anti-anxiety peptide ANP is boosted.

3) Diet and herbal remedies

A balanced diet also provides you with important nutrients. And that forms the basis in the fight against various complaints. Because a well-nourished organism is more resistant to pathogens and stress and can deal better with challenges. Consequently, he is more likely to handle frightening situations. Meanwhile, an improper diet can result in deficiencies in certain neurotransmitters. Accordingly, you can reinforce fears through a wrong diet.

4) Cannabidiol to overcome anxiety

In addition, you can use dietary supplements to relieve anxiety symptoms. It is worth taking a look at cannabidiol, CBD for short, and its effects. Because this substance from the female hemp plant has a medical anxiolytic effect and is offered in the form of various CBD products. Since the active ingredient interacts with the body’s endocannabinoid system, a part of the nervous system, it can affect bodily functions. The best-known dosage forms include oils, drops, and liquids. It is crucial when consuming that it is a high-quality product that is strictly controlled and complies with the legally prescribed THC limit.

5) Auxiliary valerian for calming

Valerian helps against restlessness, nervousness, and sleep disorders. Because essential oils from the root of the plant have a calming effect on the neurotransmitter gamma-aminobutyric acid or GABA for short. However, due to potential side effects such as headaches or dizziness, you should only take valerian preparations under medical supervision for a limited period of time. Prof. Dr. med. medical Volker Faust and the Psychosocial Health Working Group.

6) Relaxation techniques

Heart palpitations, sleep disorders, inner tension, dizziness, and many other ailments can be counteracted with relaxation techniques. Then you can specifically overcome your fear and alleviate anxiety symptoms. Whether you decide to meditate, autogenic training or simple breathing exercises is up to you.

People used to meet up with acquaintances to spend a fun evening over a meal together. It’s more complicated today because many guests want to do without something, something they can’t seem to tolerate. Are we too scared of eating “the wrong thing”?

Of course, you know about the allergies in your circle of friends and take vegetarians and vegans into account when planning the menu. But now there are more and more people who no longer eat gluten, suffer from lactose intolerance, eat no more carbohydrates, no more fat, no more sugar and so on.

Hosts then sometimes stand frustrated and at a loss between the cookbooks and decide to meet up with their friends in a restaurant in the future, where everyone can choose the dish that suits the current nutritional phase.

When nutrition becomes ideology and neurosis

Jokes aside: eating is no longer just for everyone: enjoyment and joy. For some, it is becoming an increasingly serious and tiring thing that could almost be considered an illness: orthorexia.

In principle, it is a positive development that many people are now more aware of what they eat, that they buy more organically grown or regional products and pay attention to ingredients and additives, or eat less meat because it is more sustainable.

Eating healthy is meanwhile also hype and lifestyle. You no longer define yourself by what you like to eat, but by what you don’t eat. “Food becomes a stylistic device. In future we will define ourselves through our diet,” is the provocative thesis of nutritionist Hanni Rützler in the 2016 Food Report.

Orthorexia: sensitive and obsessive eaters

Experts formulate this a little more cautiously. You speak of “sensitive eaters”, i.e. of people who avoid certain substances or foods. Not because they suffer from a medically certified allergy or intolerance. But because they believe they can live better or healthier as a result.

One or the other overshoots the mark: The term orthorexia nervosa describes an eating disorder (clinically not yet classified) in which those affected have a strikingly pronounced need to eat healthily and food not only into healthy and unhealthy, but for example also categorize as ethically good or bad. Orthorexia was “invented” by the American alternative physician Steven Bratman, who first described the symptoms in a detailed article in 1997.

For those suffering from orthorexia, preoccupation with “healthy” or “right” eating in excess has become an obsession. Orthorectics spend an enormous amount of time devising menus composed of the foods they consider “good.”

In the worst case, this eating disorder leads to malnutrition when the menu consists only of the few permitted foods. There is also a risk of social isolation when orthorectics avoid invitations and restaurants for fear of eating something wrong.

Not every person who eats consciously suffers from orthorexia. And if you avoid certain foods, you are far from being a neurotic. But with the ever new eating trends and renunciation fashions, the question arises as to whether one actually lives healthier if one does without more and more things.

Orthorexia winners: the industry

Allergies and intolerances appear to be more common today than they used to be, and people fear fat and sugar more than ever. The food industry is reacting to this with a veritable flood of “free from” products. For those who actually suffer from celiac disease (gluten intolerance) or lactose intolerance, for example, this is a big step forward.

But it is also a fact that many people buy these products – even though they are not affected at all. “Around 32 percent of Germans claim to suffer from food intolerances or allergies. Of the remaining 2/3, 81 percent voluntarily do without certain foods. Among other things, they do this out of the feeling that they cannot tolerate these foods,” according to one of the results of “Food intolerance – the marketing of fear” from a study by the market research institute Targeted.

The biggest beneficiary of this development is the food industry. It already markets products “without additives” – although it is itself responsible for the many additives in food – and with “functional food” serves the desire for food that has a useful side effect in addition to nutrition.

Now she can sell lactose-free, gluten-free and (newly) histamine-free products at significantly higher prices than regular products, even though they offer no benefits for healthy people.

Are gluten-free and lactose-free products automatically healthier?

In some supermarkets gluten-free products fill entire shelves, sometimes there are even such absurd offers as water (!) without gluten. Only about one percent of Germans suffer from celiac disease, an inflammation of the intestines caused by gluten. People with celiac disease must follow a gluten-free diet for the rest of their lives, as even the smallest amounts are harmful to them. For healthy people, on the other hand, a gluten-free diet brings no real benefit. Despite celebs like Lady Gaga promoting it, gluten-free products don’t lose weight, and gluten-free products actually have a higher number of additives because the product has to be flavored by eliminating wheat.

“Lactose-free” is also a megatrend. According to GfK, 9.4 million households used lactose-free products last year. Of these, only 18 percent suffered from lactose intolerance. Lactose intolerance manifests itself in severe flatulence, stomach problems or diarrhea. It is estimated that around 15 percent of the population in Germany are affected. For people who can break down lactose, however, there are no advantages to using lactose-free products – on the contrary: since milk products are the main suppliers of the mineral calcium, which is responsible for the stability of the skeleton, this increases the risk of osteoporosis (although this is not the case is quite as simple as that – see Milk Myths).

Conclusion: avoid orthorexia

When it comes to orthorexia, you have to make a clear distinction: For those actually affected, avoiding problematic ingredients is important and right. And it makes sense to eat consciously instead of consuming industrial foods without looking at them. Organic is always better because it’s not just about your own health, but also about ecologically compatible agriculture. And being a little more vegan or seasonal also has environmental benefits.

However, anyone who thinks they suffer from an intolerance should definitely be examined by the appropriate specialists. Gluten and lactose intolerance or other intolerances (fructose, histamine, allergies…) can only be unequivocally determined by medical tests. Nobody who is healthy and eats a balanced diet needs industrial “free from” foods, which have often been further denatured with additional processing steps than they already are.

Important: Anyone who suspects that they suffer from orthorexia or other eating disorders should definitely seek help – doctors, therapists, self-help groups or other counseling services can support those affected on their way.