Coffee and a happy marriage should be related? Maybe not directly – but some comparisons and parallels can be seen.
The comparison of coffee, partner and marriage
The author of the guide “The marriage table: 77 thoughts and quotes for life as a couple” says that women want a certain type of man. It is compared to a black, strong and hot coffee. Here one or the other lady should already start to smile and nod in agreement with one or the other attribute. Then, unexpectedly, it is said that we pour milk into our “coffee” until it is no longer so black. Then we sweeten our coffee so that it is no longer so strong. And last but not least, we blow so that we don’t burn ourselves. Then we are surprised to find that what used to be black, strong and hot coffee is now just a beige, sweet and lukewarm specialty.
If we now focus on the actual specialty coffee, that may also be the case for many. She even hit the mark with one or the other. But if we project this coffee onto our partner, the whole thing looks a bit more sobering. In short: We keep changing our great guy, man or woman, until we don’t really like him anymore. Fortunately, this comparison still leaves some room for your own interpretations.
Of course you can leave the church in the village, because fortunately it’s not as dramatic as it sounds. The author Regula Lehmann would like to make it clear that our ideal often deviates from reality. Sure, coffee is great, but everyone drinks it in their own personal way. We shouldn’t form our counterparts according to our ideas, but look for a partner with whom we complement each other wonderfully. This takes away the burden of having to be complete on our own. After all, it is impossible for us to run or even win a marathon with two left shoes. Of course, the principle applies to both men and women.
The comparison of coffee and the partner is certainly extremely amusing at one point or another – but still successful. Without many words you can understand what the author wants to tell you. Surely everyone knows good tips and recipes for a functioning marriage or relationship. Substituting coffee for the holy water at marriage, writing the marriage contract in case of divorce on the label of a wine bottle to make it easier to bear, or putting a pastoral number on speed dial are certainly not all-encompassing solutions. But: When time comes, advice will come. In any case, we are sure that a good cup of coffee can do no harm in a partnership.
